G-spot and P-spot – ”satisfaction guaranteed?”
Both men and women have special “spots” – internal erogenous zones that if properly stimulated can provide both a more enjoyable sexual experience and stronger orgasms. G-spot and P-spot. They can be difficult to find, but with the right tools you can reach new heights.
The G-spot is an erogenous zone which in stimulation can provide orgasm. The name comes from from Ernst Gräfenberg, a German gynecologist who in 1950 described the zone in an article.
There are vibrators that are specifically designed to stimulate the G-spot. Belladot Bodil is a bendable G-spot vibrator with angled head and vibrator in the top. Given the need for strong pressure and massage it might be nice to rest your fingers and letting the vibrator do the job.
Where is the G-spot?
The G-spot is located between the urethra and the vaginal wall and is not inside the vagina. You can feel it through the vaginal wall, a few centimeters in, the front / upper part of the vagina. The area is full of nerve threads and swelling bodies that you access when pushing or massaging heavily upwards. It is not always straight up, but can also sit by the sides.
At the G-spot the vaginal wall can be a bit rough on the surface. When you are sexually excited the area swells, making it easier to find the little elevation. In size the area is similar to a peach kernel.
The G-spot is easiest to reach if you are squatting with your right knee resting on the ground. You push a finger down from the bottom with your palm upward looking with a massaging and pushing motion along the vaginal wall. A sign that you found it is if you get a sense of the need to pee. If you do not find it, put your finger so far in that you feel the uterus and move your finger millimeter at a time backwards / outwards towards the vaginal opening.
The experience is different
Some women do not feel very much when the G-spot is stimulated. Others not only have an orgasm, but may experience squirting, also called female ejaculation. Squirting orgasms means that the fluid exits from the urethra during orgasm. The fluid is not urine but is formed in a gland in the tissue around the urethra. The amount of fluid varies from a centiliter up to several deciliters.
There are everything from women who do not ejaculate at all, to women who squirt like a fountain when they orgasm when the G-spot is stimulated. In some the fluid sips out a bit during the whole arousal phase. Many women may feel embarrassed if they do not know about female ejaculation, but instead think they peed themselves. Then maybe they hold back the orgasm for the fear of what the partner should think.
The A-spot was discovered in 1993 by Dr Chua Chee Ann from Maylasia. The A-spot is also called A-Zone or AFE-Zone (short for Anterior Fornix Erogenous).
Stimulation of the A-spot can increase the lubrication (moisture) of the vagina and give multiple orgasms. A light massaging of the vaginal wall is needed, unlike the stimulation of G-spot.
Zone is actually a better term than spot, because a smaller number of nerves are located on a larger area further into the vagina, between the G-spot and the uterus.
Sexual positions that make it easier to reach far into the vagina are where the woman sits on top of the man or penetration from behind.
The man’s G-spot is called P-spot
The P-spot is the man’s equivalent to the G-spot, where P stands for prostate. When the area is massaged it is said to give a different sense of pleasure than when stimulating the penis.
P-spot can be found in the anus about 5-7 centimeters in the front rectal wall towards the stomach. In size is much like a grape or chestnut.
The spot can be stimulated with fingers, tongue, dildo or penis. A and O are short-cut nails, good hygiene (condom or disposable plastic gloves) and lubricants. When using a condom it is important to use a water or silicone based lubricant. If you use oil or skin cream instead, the condom may become less durable. Belladot Original is a silicone-based lubricant that protects the sensitive mucous membranes of the anus.
It is different how you experience stimulation of the P-spot. For some men there is no extra pleasure experience. Some men do not like stimulation in the anus. The P-point is also accessible from the outside through the perineum, the area between the anus and the underside of the scrotum. A light pressure there may feel nice.